Some Girls: My Life in a Harem

❰Reading❯ ➶ Some Girls: My Life in a Harem Author Jillian Lauren – A jaw dropping story of how a girl from the suburbs ends up in a prince's harem and emerges from the secret Xanadu both richer and wiser At eighteen Jillian Lauren was an NYU theater school dropout wi A jaw dropping story My Life PDF Ç of how a girl from the suburbs ends up in a prince's harem and emerges from the secret Xanadu both richer and wiser At eighteen Jillian Lauren was an NYU theater school dropout with a tip about an upcoming audition The casting director told her that a rich businessman Some Girls: PDF/EPUB or in Singapore would pay pretty American girls if they stayed for two weeks to spice up his parties Soon Jillian was on a plane to Borneo where she would spend the next eighteen months in the harem of Prince Jefri Bolkiah youngest brother of the Sultan of Brunei leaving behind her gritty East Girls: My Life PDF/EPUB æ Village apartment for a palace with rugs laced with gold and trading her band of artist friends for a coterie of backstabbing beauties More than just a sexy read set in an exotic land Some Girls is also the story of how a rebellious teen found herself and the courage to Girls: My Life in a PDF/EPUB ² meet her birth Girls: My Life in a PDF/EPUB ² mother and eventually adopt a baby boy.Some Girls: My Life in a Harem

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  • Paperback
  • 339 pages
  • Some Girls: My Life in a Harem
  • Jillian Lauren
  • English
  • 18 September 2014
  • 9781741669220

10 thoughts on “Some Girls: My Life in a Harem

  1. says:

    Why hello there Your Royal Highness Pengiran Digadong Sahibul Mal Pengiran Muda Jefri Bolkiah ibni Al Marhum Sultan Haji Omar Ali Saifuddien Sa'adul Khairi Waddien or in short Prince Jefri aka Robin for the ladies Wow this man and his lifestyle really intrigues me I had heard the rumors but thanks to this excellent memoir by Jillian Lauren I started to really roam the Internet Prince Jefri is the youngest brother of the sultan of Brunei He is or in fact was known for his extravagant lifestyle He owned a collection of 2000 luxury cars a private Boeing 747 countless properties including hotels all over the world an enormous art collection and a yacht names Tits its lifeboats were called Nipple 1 and Nipple 2 He's also a notorious playboy in case you hadn't guessed it yet with a Yacht named like that ha Despite his 4 wives and 18 children he was spending upward of 250 million per year just to fly in expensive calls girls centerfolds and runaway teens from all over the world to compete for a position in his infamous harem And that's where Jillian Lauren the author of the memoir Some girls my life in a harem comes into play In tight effective prose she describes how she was adopted into a somewhat dysfunctional family became a stripper when still a minor and an escort girl not much later She frankly tells how she was driven by her insecurities a need for money she had dropped out of college but mostly by a thirst for adventure when she one day accepted an offer to audition for a somewhat mysterious job an anonymous Singaporean businessman was looking for girls who would entertain him The chosen girls would be compensated very well My job description was elusive at best but I fantasized that I might arrive and find a wild adventure a pile of money and an employer who was no less than Prince Charming This was my opportunity to shake of my bohemian mantle and re imagine myself as an enigmatic export maybe a royal mistress or the heroine of a spy novel More realistically I suspected I had signed on to be an international uasi prostitute There are worse things I could do At that time the sultan was the richest man on the planet And Jillian was part of one of the first groups of American girls that were flown in to the bizarre and decadent world of the sultan's youngest brother prince Jefri Here she and numerous other beauties were paid generously 20000 for only 14 days but teenager Jillian ended up receiving approximately 200000 to 300000 what she would call a gigantic amount of money especially in the early nineties to attend his nightly dance parties as entertainment for the prince and his buddies It's incredible and unbelievably surrealistic this life that prince Jefri was able to lead The girls would attend his million dollar parties in their prettiest outfits and then just hang around bored senseless However when Jefri was due with his entourage they were given a signal and hurriedly started dancing and pretended to have the times of their lives all the time trying to capture Jefri's attention He often hardly acknowledged his harem though Although every night another girl went missing presumably to have sex with the prince After which she was showered with expensive jewelry In the meantime the other girls would back stab their way towards becoming Jefri's first or second favorite girlfriend They planned the terrible things they could do to make other girls go home to increase their chances Despite the rivalry Jillian did manage to attain the position as the prince's second favorite girlfriend Something that would provide her with many interesting and entertaining anecdotes to share in Some girls my life in a harem Long after Jillian had bitten the dust a former Miss USA Shannon Marketic sued the prince and the sultan in 1997 for holding her against her will as a sex slave in Brunei drugging and raping her Her suit claimed she and other young women were lured into traveling there under false pretenses It said that their passports were confiscated on arrival and that they were checked for sexually transmitted diseases She said she and the other women were routinely groped fondled and otherwise sexually assaulted in the palace where they were forced to show up for late night disco parties to entertain Jefri's palsHowever Jillian's story makes it perfectly clear that she and the other girls were never held against their wills and could leave at any given moment The prince's sexual desires too were considering the endless possibilities that must've been up for grabs almost laughably normal Jillian only ever had completely normal sex with him He was really into voluptuous booties and would give hers a slap after sex but that was as 'violent' as it would get Even Playboy playmate Rebecca Ferratti who had headed for Brunei to see if the wild stories she'd heard about actresses models and escorts making 35000 a week to 'entertain' the prince were true told the NY Post despite not having had the jolliest time of her life in the harem how she never saw evidence of anyone being drugged or tortured unless you count boredom in that category There was plenty of that She never had sex with Jefri either There were so many of us by the time they'd get around to you it could be a yearMarketic's suit was dismissed diplomatic immunity but the scandal embarrassed the sultan so much that he began investigating his brother and claimed he'd stolen billions from the family It would be the beginning of Jefri's decline In 2006 the prince began legal proceedings against his former advisors the barrister Thomas Derbyshire and his wife Faith Zaman in both the UK and US accusing them of stealing funds from him He eventually lost the case Zahman said He is a very very smart man And he had hidden assets so well that the sultan with all of his resources and all of his private investigators couldn’t find them The assets were registered in layer upon layer of 'bearer shares' Eventually we gained his trust and then he opened up and we got to know everything the art vaults full of paintings the jewelry gold diamonds bullion and secret bank accounts” check out this interesting Vanity Fair articleAccording to Wikipedia in late April 2008 a New York court officially transferred control of what was believed to be prince Jefri’s last major asset the New York Palace to the BIA After he finally surrendered what he contended were the rest of his diamonds—five stones worth approximately 200 million and a hundred paintings his 10 year odyssey had finally come to an end and he had to kiss his lavish lifestyle goodbye That must have been hard to deal with His lawyer had told the court earlier The idea of prince Jefri working for a living is on a level of when during the Russian Revolution they put the aristocrats in the streets of St Petersburg in the middle of the winter without any clothes to sweep Unimaginable wealth all his life He’s 55 or so Now he’s going to go and bus tables?Towards the end of her memoir which is by the way prohibited in Brunei Jillian ponders about how treasure loses its power as an ego boost pretty uickly and becomes just another watch another pair of earrings jewelry so gaudy it looks like you probably bought it at Patricia Field Eventually the jewels lose their sentimental value entirely and you wind up selling them to an estate jewelry buyer in a second floor office in the diamond districtAnd Ferratti summarizes the prince's lifestyle concisely I think he viewed himself as some sort of Islamic Hugh Hefner but he really should consult with Hugh on how to throw a partyIn the end The Beatles were right again weren't they?

  2. says:

    I heard the author give an interview on Howard Stern about this book and was intrigued not so much by her haremhooker past but by the fact she is now married to the bassist of Weezer and they adopted a little boy from Ethiopia just like me the Ethiopia part not the Weezer part And okay the harem thing was sort of interesting But though this book was readable by the end I was totally annoyed by the writer She has the pretense of being this fantastic author who honed her craft during her second tour of duty in the Brunei harem but there's nothing particularly gripping or striking about her just competent writing This book would be downright boring if not for the salacious harem details and there was nothing really uplifting about it just the story of a troubled upper middle class brat with no ambition and no talent relying on her body and dull wits to make a mint of money as a prostitute Two stars because I'm a sucker for salacious harem details

  3. says:

    I saw this author on The View promoting this book I immediately thought 2 things 1 I am about to rewrite a story that is set in a modern day harem and this would be good for research and 2 here is another person who got a publishing contract not because she can write but because she happened to have a good story which in light of the recent Oprah book club memoir debacles may or may not be true Amid the depressing thoughts that I would perhaps have to join a harem to get a NY publishing contract I ordered the book immediatelyAgain I was proved wrong This woman was no sham she can really write It is later revealed in the text why To keep her sanity while in this harem she would write First a journal later short stories then later her memoirThis book is very thought provoking the main uestion being how in the world does a girl who grew up in New Jersey end up in a Prince’s harem in this day and age? The answer soon follows in this passage Besides the money jewels nightly parties free flowing champagne and gourmet food designer clothes lush accommodations and free international travel there was this begin uote Sometimes I fell prey to fantasies of becoming a princess It seemed so strange that it had entered my orbit of possibilities What Disney brained American girl hadn’t lain in bed and known deep in her heart that she was worthy of being woken from an evil spell by the kiss of a prince? That she would open her eyes and due to no effort of her own find that she had been saved? Who wouldn’t consider attempting to grab that gold ring that diamond crown? from Some Girls page 189 The I thought about it the I read the I realized that this modern harem was not such a phenomenon after all I had visions of Hugh Hefner’s mansion teeming with ‘girlfriends’ and ‘Playmates’ at nightly parties Of ABC’s The Bachelor where 25 women will claw each other’s eyes out for the chance to be with a man who yesterday was a complete stranger to themHow did Lauren an NYU studentdrop out end up there? A struggling actress from an abusive family she went from stripping to being an ‘escort’ to the harem within about a year when she was 18 and struggling to pay to live in NYC while waiting for her big acting breakMy impression besides the realization that the Playboy mansion and The Bachelor were both very harem like was that being in a harem was far less exciting than I had imagined The girls wore their normal clothing not see thru I Dream of Jeannie outfits No one made them perform the “Dance of the Seven Veils” Instead they disco danced Even though this was the early 90s and disco was long dead apparently the Sultan of Brunai’s prince brother still liked it and he always got what he wanted There was no training for the girls on how to be a sexual expert In fact there was hardly any sex at all Understandably There was 1 prince with 3 wives and 40 girls Hard to get to them all for any mortal man even a prince Some girls had sex with him once then were sent home after their 2 week stint Others became a favorite and stayed for a year not because they were particularly good at sex but because they added to the ‘drama’ which entertained the prince much like the crazy girls on The Bachelor always seem to hang around for a long time because they are good entertainmentFor the Disney fied little girl in all of us Yes the prince did eventually propose to a harem girl since he was allowed legally to take 4 wives and his first wife had already provided suitable heirs The joke was on him The harem girl of his dreams took the money and jewels and disappeared never to be heard from again She wasn’t an American apparently Disney doesn’t reach Thailand and being Princess #4 didn’t appeal to her

  4. says:

    I found this book sad and disturbing bereft of any real pointI picked it up out of curiosity about Brunei and an abiding interest in each person's uniue story but finished it only to see if the poor girl eventuallyfound some sort of redemption It seems she didn'tJillian and her brother Johnny grew up in the middle class non observantJewish family into which they were both adopted Both experienced troubledand wild teenage years Johnny found fulfillment in God becoming a devoutHasid Jillian takes a condescending view of her brother's path whileproceeding to make one unfortunate decision after another In the courseof the story which is told in very vulgar and melodramatic terms she becomes a stripper a prostitute a porn performance artistand the mother of an aborted child She is perpetually miserable and yet refuses to seek any path that might lead to true freedom and joy Her primary philosophicalguideline is What would Patti Smith do? Despite endless self analysisshe never seems to get it It is obvious that she is full of self hate and yet there is a smugness about her that I found very annoyingI can't think of one reason to recommend this book to anyone In fact I'msorry I read it myself

  5. says:

    This was a pleasant surprise The subtitle gave me pause for a moment but this memoir was not the tawdry cheesy andor poorly written mess I feared it might be Why was I reading this at all? A 1 find at the library and a mood to indulge in a light easy breezy summertime read It was that but a coming of age story about the author’s search for identity at ages 18 and 19 in an unusual setting with a twist and finally her learning how to have compassion for her own mistakes and shortcomings The writing here was so much better than I expected I think I’ve bumped it up almost a star just for the “gap reaction” the happiness I experienced realizing how much of a difference there was between my low expectations and my enjoyment An adopted New Jersey teen with a troubled home life Jillian Lauren drops out of college and supports herself in New York with a job as a stripper then graduates to an escort service She’s offered an opportunity to go to Brunei to party with a prince why not an assignment that promises exceptional compensation Yearning for adventure – and the cash—she leaves her boyfriend lies to her parents and lands on Borneo at a complex of palace adjacent guest houses that are temporary homes to a rotating collection of young women from all over the world who are kept around for the entertainment of Jefri Prince of Brunei brother to the reigning Sultan The subtitle “My Life in a Harem” is a bit misleading Actually Jillian stayed several weeks on two different occasions The girls’ main activity was hanging out at dull disco style parties each night where they would vie for the attention of their host The relationships were redolent of the personal politics of a high school lunchroom but understandably given their ages At 18 Jillian was not even the baby of the group And the Prince known to his visitors as Robin played each of them against the others for his own amusement In the midst of the scheming manipulative rivalries Jillian develops an unhealthy attachment to the powerful charismatic but bored spoiled sex addicted and emotionally sadistic prince To battle the “skull crushing boredom” there are field trips “When faced with such despair a girl can always shop We hit the Yaohan with travel goggles on the kind that make every little thing look irresistible because it’s exotic and the money makes no sense and you feel like you’re in a video game with tinny Asian pop songs and smiling wide faced shop girls who speak to you in rhymes and giggle at your strangeness In this video game you gain strength by acuiring snacks and T shirts and little stuffed animals and sweet smelling soaps and brightly colored lip gloss” This trip was just foreshadowing another retail binge where Jillian is taken to a shopping marathon that lasts for eleven and a half hours and where she is encouraged to spend in one day probably the annual revenue of some small third world nations When she finds herself working as a stewardess on the royal yacht without any warning training or experience she realized that the Prince “liked to put his people in bizarre situations just to see what they’d do We were his little lab rats” After a while Jillian does become at least temporarily a favorite and she shares Robin’s bed and is his regular companion “I kissed Robin good bye every morning and sat next to him every night at dinner It was like having a boyfriend except he was a dictator’s brother who was married three times already and had forty other girlfriends Power was something I’d never experienced before I’m not sure that I was in love with Robin as a person exactly but I was in love with that feeling ecstatically in love I may have gotten the two confused Power tasted like an oyster like I’d swallowed the sea all its memories and calm and rot and brutality “While theoretically she was not a prisoner there were times she was locked in a room to wait for Robin or found herself on a journey where she had no idea of her destination A guard who fetches her one evening takes her into an elevator and she has a moment of over dramatic imagination and panic “I was like that guy in the gangster movie who knows he’s about to get whacked for some infraction I imagined the headlines Despairing Spurned Mistress Throws Herself Off a Malaysian Rooftop American Prostitute Dies in a Drug Deal Gone Wrong at the Kuala Lumpur Hilton Jersey Teen Disappears While on Holiday in Southeast Asia At least I’d die in an evening gown”Jillian is a very young woman trying to recreate herself but gets all tangled up in the shallow and superficial in this bizarre and toxic environment and when she returns to New York very well compensated as promised she has trouble adjusting to life there She goes back to Brunei for another stint as a Prince Jefri groupie Needing a creative outlet a sense of purpose and a way to deal with the idiocy of the whole situation she begins writing about her experiences in letters and journals which became the foundation of this book When she goes home to America once again to search for her birth mother and for herself she knew she “had severed the connection between my soul and my body so profoundly that I could barely feel my own skin any If I never saw Robin again maybe I’d be free to return to myself I knew I was facing a long road back” There is a happy ending epilogue for Jillian Things didn’t turn out so well for the Prince I wouldn’t recommend this highly but if you’re in the mood for this sort of thing it is entertaining and the writing again not bad

  6. says:

    I thought this was going to be about Brunei I thought this was going to be about life in a harem I thought this was going to be about a woman's descriptions and feelings about harem life It was none of this Some Girls is a pathetic attempt at storytelling about a woman's boring childhood family and sex escapadesFirst of all the word harem is used in a very modern sense and not in the traditional or Islamic sense which means the place where the women of the household live their lives The book starts off with the author whining about her family problems Then she moves on to become a sleazy actress and gets promoted to being a sleazy prostitute All this just takes up and space By the time she flies to Brunei you are already heartily boredBut it's not like the book picks up once she is in the harem Oh no That would be money for worth So it's basically this woman and a number of other similar boring women whining about shit and having karaoke parties One of the princes makes an occasional appearance and picks out one of them and has sex with them Jeez A newspaper article on this subject would be intriguingI found Lauren annoying and while I began to realise that she had severe problems and came from a terribly dysfunctional and abusive family I don't understand the need to write this book There is nothing interesting in it She has no insights no descriptive abilities no writing capacity no ideas no ability to dig out hidden gems from everyday life and frankly no moral values even one of which might have made this book non redundant I didn't even hate the author that's how boring this book wasAs for Brunei forget it This might have taken place in the White House or in some other galaxy It wouldn't have made an iota of difference to the ehm story to give this atrocity a graceful appellation The author makes no attempt to get to know or understand the local culture and indeed she doesn't even meet any of the locals At all She just meets other prostitutes and none of them are interesting either Or maybe they are and Lauren just couldn't bring it out I wouldn't know I didn't manage to finish this book

  7. says:

    I picked this book up after reading about it in the paper I was unaware that it was a memoir type story I figured it was fiction My bad The writer appears to be bi polar as far as her story is concerned On one hand she glamorizes being a hooker on the other she tries to show she regrets her choices wants to be a better personbut keeps going right back to all the perks of being a prostitute She waxes poetic a lot it's all BS like a creative writing assignment gone bad Some of the events sound like a lot of BS In her story she says she leaves home at sixteen to go to college drops out a few months before she turns 18 is left on her own and turns to stripping At 18 she joins the harem but she likes to throw things in there that make you wonder how someone had time and money to do these things in a six month time span There's an undercurrent that she really is a good girl she just happens to do drugs take off her clothes and have sex for money Had I known this was the basis of the book I wouldn't have bothered It was like a train wreck though you knew it was going to be bad but you looked anyway Overall the writer is extremely shallow in her own words and didn't leave you much room to be sympathetic Not sure what the lesson was in this book but I'm not sure she learned it

  8. says:

    I admit that I gave this memoir five stars instead of four because I know the author though only distantly I admired her writing early in her career and when I finally read this memoir I was pretty blown away I hear a lot of hating in the comments but that doesn't really make sense to me It's really uite a beautifully written book Maybe memoir is just one of those things that either clicks with you or doesn't But I've read a lot of books about sex work and this one was unuestionably one of the most insightful sex positive and non judgmental More importantly it was amazingly poetic at times and a pleasure to read just for the writing styleLauren is closeish to my age and I felt very much like the generational aspect was very close to my experience A lot of the wacky bohemians she knew in NY were similar to those I knew in SF and the era she describes I remember vividly That scenery coexists with the bizarre dysfunctional warped emotionally sadistic world of the prince's harem and the juxtaposition is utterly demented I really enjoyed almost everything about this book

  9. says:

    I didn't love this book I thought it was a waste of time The language was awful and I didn't understand many parts She skips around and brings in analogies that don't make a lot of sense Lots of reviews talk about how she found herself and grew up I didn't get that at all Seemed to me like she didn't learn anything from her mistakes It skips 14 years ahead and gives one page on her life now with her husband and baby Somewhere in that 14 years she may have learned but if so she skipped right past it And I felt bad for her parents that she rips apart throughout the book She seemed like a spoiled ungrateful brat to me

  10. says:

    25 stars This is a very uick interesting read The author is looking back at her 18 19 year old self who dropped out of NYU became a stripper became an escort and ended up as a member of the Prince of Brunei's harem this is all on the book jacket so it's not a spoiler While I really enjoyed some of the passages the scenes where she spends spends spends in Chanel Dolce Gabbana etc are crazy there are a lot of long boring flashbacks to her upper middle class Jewish upbringing in Long Island Since I grew up with a lot of middle class Jewish girls in Westchester this was really familiar and repetitive to me especially as it seemed that the author dwelled on a lot of abusive situations without ever blaming her parents instead internalizing a lot of the abuse I would have liked to have seen some reflection on the events that transpired in the harem rather than the superficialities of the court what girl was fighting with who who wore what on what night etc Overall a decent book club book or library read but if you're looking for an epic memoir about either the sex trade or the life of the uber rich oil monarchies this is not it

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